Counselling With Nikki
About Me
I'm Nikki, and welcome to my website.
I am a Person-Centred Counsellor working and living in Southbourne, Dorset. Originally from London, I lived and worked abroad for ten years, before returning to the UK and settling in Dorset, some twenty years ago.
Since then, I have been supporting people in my community to manage their addictions, their mental health, and their wellbeing.
I have personally found counselling useful in my own life, and in 2019, I made the decision to train as a counsellor. I have studied for four years but continue to constantly develop my professional skills so that I can continue to give my very best. I enjoy connecting with people, even when they feel they do not have anything to offer.
Finding a counsellor, you connect with is important, therefore I offer a FREE 15-minute telephone conversation to discuss your needs before any commitment. You can decide if I am the right person for you to work with.
Training qualification and experience
• CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
• CPCAB Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Studies
• CPCAB Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Skills
• HumanKind Agency for Addiction
• Pegasus Men’s Wellbeing Centre
• Cruse Bereavement Support
Counselling with Nikki
The Person-Centred approach to counselling means exactly what it says – that you, the person, will be at the centre of our counselling. It means that you are the most important person in our work together.
Counselling
‘If I can provide a certain type of relationship, the other person will discover within himself, the capacity to use our relationship for growth and personal development will occur’- Carl Rogers
Person-Centred therapy was developed by Carl Rogers, who discovered that when he truly listened to people, and he did not try to ‘fix them’ he noticed the person had the answers themselves. I am not there to tell you what to do, give you my opinions or advise on your life, but I am there to help you discover the answers within yourself, enabling you to move forward and facilitate positive change.
In our sessions you choose the pace; I will listen carefully to you and your situation. I will be empathic, understanding and accepting, of you and I will be fully committed in working with you to develop a therapeutic relationship where you feel understood, heard and seen.
I believe that if you experience this way of being listened to:
- You will find a way through your problems
- You will become clearer about who you are and what you need
- You will be more confident
There is nothing more satisfying than witnessing people take control of their life again and develop into the person they truly are.
FAQ's
Are you a member of a Professional Body?
Yes, I am an accredited member of the National Counselling Psychotherapy Society. I work within their Ethical Framework.
Where will I be seen?
I have a therapy room at home, situated in the garden. The garden room provides a safe and private space with views into the garden, that is not overlooked by anyone.
When can I be seen?
I am currently available Monday to Wednesday 9.30 am 7.00pm. I also offer Saturday morning appointments from 9.30am – 1.00pm. Hopefully we can find a time that is convenient for you.
How can we meet?
I would recommend face to face sessions, however, you may decide to work remotely with me. This can be done via Google Meet. Telephone appointments are also available.
I am happy with any of these mediums, and I will be guided by what you, the client prefers.
Each session lasts for 50 minutes, known as the counselling hour.
How long will I need counselling for?
This is individual to you and
depends on your requirements.
Some clients attend counselling on a short-term basis i.e. 6-8 sessions, whilst others prefer to work together for longer.
You choose how long you attend for. Some clients attend weekly, whilst others prefer to attend fortnightly or monthly. The decision is down to you and how you want to manage the time we have together.
What can counselling help with?
• Addiction
• Anxiety
• Bereavement/loss
• Depression
• Isolation
• Issues relating to sex
• Issues around sexuality/gender
• Loss of meaning in your life
• Low self-esteem
• Personal growth
• Problems at home/work
• Relationships
• Trauma
How much will it cost?
Initial consultation - Free 15 minutes
Face to Face Counselling
£45 for 50 minutes
Online Counselling
£45 for 50 minutes
Telephone Counselling
£45 for 50 minutes
Counsellors in training
£35 for trainee counsellors who are working
towards their forty hours of personal therapy
Payment for our session is required 24 hours in advance. I accept payment by bank transfer or cash. Timely payment ensures I can maintain an efficient and effective schedule for all clients.
Payment information will be provided during or after the introductory session.
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